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If you've come this far... I am a 37 year old divorced female - living in the suburbs of Atlanta, Georgia, USA. I am Pediatric Radiologist and I love children - though I have none of my own. My Real Name - is Trinity. - I was raised in a very small town in Ohio - I was born at Trinity Hospital. I am looking for a man - who is very gentle, kind hearted, generous with affection, - honest to a fault, and intellectually stimulating. Someone who will brighten my day... and make me smile. I am hoping to find my soulmate. - I hope he is looking for me. I am also part of the "H Community". I have been so for 9 years now. H stands for Herpes. Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV). Before you say "ewwww" or call me a slut / whore / bitch - (yes, I have heard it all): Herpes is a non life-threatening disease... - it is more of a social / emotional one. ...and it's not as bad as people think ...it's only as bad as you want it to be. It's hard enough to date... without herpes. - Try to image what dating with 'h' is like. I contracted herpes - when my ex-husband decided to have numerous affairs. I remember him telling me... I was not young enough - or pretty enough for him anymore. I am a somewhat quiet, conversative person who enjoys reading, watching videos, and cooking. Intelligence, and humor are incredible turn-on's for me. My family has been the pillar upon which I lean. I rarely date... my work keeps me busy. Men I have dated... either have HSV... or - are able to deal with the situation. The worse part (for me) about having herpes... is how people tend to treat me. Many - automatically assume I am in the wrong... or I deserved what I got. These are people who know nothing about me... and possibly even less about themselves - and the risks created by not understanding, listening, or caring. Most people I've encountered - think that I am not the "perfect candidate" to have acquired herpes. Herpes is NOT selective... it doesn't discriminate like many people do. It doesn't care who you are, what you do - or how much money you have. There is no "perfect candidate". Everyone is at risk by simply having unprotected sex. You can sit there and come up with many different excuses - as to why you don't have herpes. Excuses like: "I'm been Married for 10 years..." - I was married also... I know first-hand - sometimes spouses will cheat. "I haven't been with a lot of people..." - well, nor have I... but 1 is all it takes. Sometimes, people assume that having herpes - means you are Promiscuous... a slut. This is rarely true. Becoming a Physician was very important to me. Becoming a Radiologist took me 16 years. I didn't date often... because I didn't have the time to date. "I've never been with a someone who has h..." - can you really tell ? Honestly, truthfully - they probably didn't tell you - for fear of rejection... or - they may not have known themselves. Most people who have h - DON'T KNOW IT. I am also herpes advocate. If you have herpes... I will listen. If you would like to talk to me about herpes... send me this code: 437737. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention 1 out of 4 Woman (25%), and 1 out of 5 Men (20%)... already have some form of Herpes. In reality... - if you have ever had a Cold Sore on your lip... - or had Chicken Pox - then you have herpes. Most people don't know they have it. - it is more common - and shared by more people - than you realize. If you are one of us... you are not alone. Meet People With H.   We are a Community who understands what living with HSV and HPV is like. A Community for the rest of us. 437737 DatingWithH.com - Click Here